Often times we forget that we are the only ones that can control how we feel both internally and externally. Grant it, getting compliments and verbal pushes are always nice to receive from people. But when it turns into something we seek to and for everything then that's when it becomes a crutch. You see, others will always see us for what and how they perceive us. Whether we agree with their opinion or not, it will always be there. But the key is to see yourself.
See yourself, not for what others told you how to look or what you look like but rather how you want to be seen. Envision your hearts' desires being tangible; right at the tip of your fingertips!
If you want a mansion, see yourself in it. Clip out interior and exterior designs of the mansion you want. The amount of bedrooms, bathroom, a swimming pool, etc.
If you want to model, see yourself modeling on a runway or in a high fashion photoshoot.
If you want to be a publlisher, begin writing and see yourself at your own book signing.
If we are constantly asking or waiting for someone to tell us about ourself then how do you ever expect to love yourself fully? You will never be fully satisfied or happy. Not only that, but you must also go further than just "seeing" and act on it. Act on what you want. You have to create how you see yourself!
"I came to win, to fight, to conquer, to thrive