Friday, December 23, 2016

Stop Making Great Time on a Road to Nowhere!!!!

Wasting time is perhaps the most disrespectful thing you could do to God… You’re probably thinking, “I have time, I’ll do that tomorrow,” WRONG! You don’t know if you’ll have time. Tomorrow may never come. Cliché? Yeah. Truth? ABSOLUTELY!

We have no idea when this is it. Sound familiar? Remember Michael Jackson and the name of his tour? It was to be the best tour yet! The production team, the dancers, the visuals, the dramatics, oh man, I would’ve loved to see it live… But unfortunately, the late, great, Michael Jackson would not have the chance to see live.. Just like that, when someone speaks of Michael Jackson, it’s followed by RIP. No one will ever really know just how spectacular This Is It could’ve been.
I know I don’t want to waste any more time, do you? You may feel like, “why do I need to plan and prepare for an uncertain life?” Well, here’s why, because God gave His ONLY son that you and myself could live. And not just live, averagely or in mediocracy, but to live ABUNDANTLY. We are still here because we have work to do. No, not the 9-5 work that you dread on a daily and complain about every chance you get to whomever will listen. I mean the glorious work, the bountiful work, the work that blesses someone else, the type of work that shows gratitude and appreciation, to who other than, G.O.D Himself. I mean, after all, if it weren’t for God’s selflessness, there’d be no need for this conversation.

How is that God did something so inhumane, for such ungrateful, inhumane people? Don’t worry, that’s a rhetorical question. There will never be a time where we will fully understand why God did and continues to do what He does. All we know and can be sure of is that it gets done! If we could take the time to understand the value within us that is already there (because of God), we would rethink putting ourselves in obstacles and situations that were never meant for us. Has anyone ever told you, “pick your battles?” Well how about you listen. Proverbs 19:20 “Hear counsel, and receive instruction, that thou mayest be wise in thy latter end.” That scripture is proof that there is a guideline to life. We don’t always have to do what WE think is best for us; that was already mapped out, by GOD! He did all the hard work for us and yet, He still supplied us with EVERYTHING we need. So not only did He take the time to instruct us on how to maneuver through life but He also gave us the tools needed to do so, such as patience, kindness, forgiveness, love, etc. That’s like going on a camping trip, renting a vehicle that’ll never run out on gas, it will not break down, and then arriving to the cabin only to find out the refrigerator is fully stocked, you didn’t need to pack a bag because there are clothes (in your size) and everything you’ll need already there! All you had to do was read the instructions on how to get there but oh silly flesh driven, we know everything already humans, what do we do? We leave the instructions/map in a bag in the trunk which prevents us from getting to the cabin on time because we “thought” we knew where to go and how to get there. Oh, let me say, you will get there but not without getting stuck in traffic, having to turn around and rerouted multiple times due to road blocks and construction zones, but hey, we’re so blinded by ego and pride sometimes, we make ourselves believe we wanted to take the scenic route.

My words are not to shun you are look down on you because we’ve all been there, done that, have a shirt for proof! But why? Why must we continue to “try and make it,” or be content with “just enough.” I know I don’t want a life like that and I for sure do not want my children’s life to be as such. It is a decision we will have to make eventually so why continue to put it off. We literally only live once. That’s it, no gimmick, no surprise life renewal plan, just this one time. I want the best one time living plan possible and if that means taking time out of my imaginary busy schedule to read a manual that has been divinely created just for me (the BIBLE), then I’ll choose that over anything.

Tuesday, December 20, 2016

It's In Your Blood To Succeed!

Many times, we find ourselves trying to figure out what it is we are purposed for... And I am here to remind you that you ARE HERE TO SUCCEED!  Take every waking breath to remind yourself, 




It is difficult to see the result when you haven't visualized the steps it'll take to begin the process. I have recently been focusing on my blood type which is A+.. That alone sparked something in me that reminded me to GET UP! Get up because I was created to make it!

Success is in your blood! You were molded with fibers of greatness and particles of wealth! There is no way YOU CANNOT WIN unless you DON'T TRY!

Do not live in the "should've, could've, would've" But instead, LIVE in 


Do not settle for less than what you were put here to accomplish! I will personally support you through your process. 

VISUALIZE the process
ACTUALIZE your results!

Your DNA has been set up for greatness, which is why you have not been able to accept mediocre.

Sunday, February 21, 2016

My First Lady is Blossoming 

I had the idea to write this around the time Process Patience was being birthed but for reason it could not come together. But now it's ready. 

First thing you think when you hear First Lady? 
Maybe the FLOTUS, Mrs. Michelle Obama perhaps. Or the First Lady of your church. Or maybe even your mother, grandmother, aunts etc. 
Every lady mentioned is in fact a First Lady.  While writing Process Patience, I felt a powerful sense of leadership and selflessness. I began feeling like I had a platform and I had to do something powerful with it. I knew there was one person I could influence and impact everyday and I sought the opportunity daily. I started extending my help whether it was to answer my phone to listen to a friend or go meet with a friend because they just needed someone there. 
It became my obligation to allow Process Patience to vibrate through my bones and amplify my First Lady. 
I've learned and accepted that:

It's ok to be that listening ear. 
It's ok to cater to another instead of napping. 
It's ok to push others to become their best. 
It's ok to share your time with someone who needs company for just a few moments out the day. 
It's ok to work through a headache for the betterment of those around you. 
It's ok contribute to the stability of those surrounding you. 
It's ok to take a moment to reflect on how want to help someone. 
It's ok to ask for help. 
It's ok to achieve everything you've ever wanted. 
It's ok to say no to anything that is not pleasing to you. 
It's ok to be the First Lady in your life. Let her blossom. Let her become that crown wearing, beautifully selfless, 'I cry if I want' motto living, strong, and confident lady that IS. 
It's ok be the roots governed in the strong foundation of love 
and forgiveness.